How do you handle conflict? I...
Run from it
Handle it head on
How does your spouse handle conflict? My spouse typically...
Runs from it
Deals with it directly
Think of a time when you had an argument about the affair. Who approaches the other first after an argument typically?
They approach me first usually
I approach them first usually
It depends
Who talks about the problems more currently?
They talk about the problems more currently
I talk more about the problems currently
We both talk about it currently
Who had the affair(s)
I had the affair
They had the affair
We both had affairs
How many affairs were there?
One affair
More than one
What does your conflict look like? Choose the best option.
We don't ever fight...never ever...we seem perfect
We might talk about it...but it doesn't ever seem to get resolved....sometimes we just get quiet or pretend nothing happened.
We get really loud and sometimes there's screaming and yelling
Sometimes the cops are called and there are restraining orders placed
Which feeling listed best matches how you feel in your relationship right now? I feel....
Sad
Hurt
Afraid
Not good enough
How do you share those feelings with your partner? I...
Get defensive
Get angry
Don't share feelings
When your partner is upset how do you know? They....
Cry
Get angry
Hide their feelings
Do something entirely different
When your spouse is upset are you able to comfort them?
Yes
No
When you can't comfort them how does that make you feel? Choose the best option that fits you.
Sad
Hurt
Afraid
Not good enough
Other emotions
Are you afraid for your life currently? Is your spouse dangerous?
Yes
No
Do you share those feelings with them?
Yes
No
Has there been any addiction?
Yes
No
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